Some men have “side girls”. You can think that you are
the one and only, but in fact you may be that “side chick”
yourself.
How not to get into this trap?
1. He is often out during holidays
Of course he has excuses. But he is likely to just be
celebrating the holidays with someone else. And the one
who suffers is the side-chick. If you are lucky – he would
send you some little gift. Not all the guys are guilty of this,
but if he is not celebrating a couple of important holidays
with you in a row, that can be a bad sign.
2. He doesn’t mention you on his social media
At the age of Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, it is odd
when a guy who you date does not recognize you there.
Of course he can just not use social media a lot. But if he
posts pictures of his abs, his dog and his dinner, but
“forgets” to mention you as his girl or just to post a
picture of you two – you should be careful.
3. Strange calls
He dials or receive calls from a strange number. And he
always has to pick it, he never tells you who it was. But
you know that it is not his mom or a younger sister from
Lagos. Sometimes the number might not be stored in his
phone address book. That’s a sign to check it all up,
because it can be the second (or the main) chick.
4. He calls you at a particular time…
… And picks up your calls at these times too. This is
especially dangerous if it happens during several
weekends. If he makes excuses most weekends and can’t
even talk to you – check your boo!
5. He hates surprises
And surprise visits in particular. Your man does not want
you to come unannounced, without notifications. So if he
constantly says he hates surprise visits, it is time to get
concerned.
6. He is not calling you his girlfriend
When it is time to introduce you to his friends, colleagues
or even relatives, he just introduces you with your name.
And he never calls you his girlfriend among his circle.
7. Trust your instincts
If you feel that something is wrong – maybe it is a sign.
Who knows, maybe you are really a side chick. So it is
never too late to check it out.
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